how do you want it?
How do we know we're doing it well if there's so many options?
Well, I think we do it how we FEEL it. I am one of those people that thinks that the 'Once More, With Feeling!' is the best way to do what we like. But of course, porn has kind of skewed my views a little because well, there's the idea that there MAY be something I should try and then the FOMO is too much. So I started thinking if there IS a position I like better/more/haven't tried.
So I went over my inventory. And I think I've tried most? Not the Kama Stura approved, of course. Some are ridic. Not even Tom Daley would try those and HE has the equipment and stamina to do it. I have tried the ones that I like, I guess. And the ones that seem to give us both pleasure. Because we always go back to our base. We do the adventurous thing but we tend to find that middle ground that feels familiar but exciting and we tend to stay there.
So what if I have not tried The Wheelbarrow, or The 70, or whatever else the kids come up one day and it becomes popular? What if I basically stay with the six or seven that are tried and true to my cause, which is enjoying us, and I just leave all the other positions alone?
Does that make me boring? Because I'm not bored. I've found out after all these years and all these men that I really don't care. I've decided that if I find a man who likes those six or seven positions then I'm good. It's the way we enjoy ourselves within that repertoire what I think counts. It's finding that perfect position where we can kiss while you slid in and out. It's feeling you're grabbing me for dear life because you're feeling it, it's being close enough that the moment you're coming I can hear your grunt/moan in my ear. It's feeling your heart beat. It's the rush and the emotion. Not the 'technique'. I don't need to be hanging from the ceiling to decide that Afternoon Delight was the shit.
Yes, I agree some positions do let you hit that spot better, but I'm sure some also give your dick that sensation that makes you say 'you've got such a nice ass' and at that exact moment I feel we've found the right one. Whichever it is we're in at that moment. Because every moment is different. Even though we've been doing this for some years now. It's the 'Once More, With Feeling' that I'm lusting after. So no matter how you take me, just do it. Like Nike.