Empirically





DILFs are in. As E.J. Dickson described for MEL last fall, “One look at Instagram’s vast universe of parenting content suggests many people find babywearing dads sexy as hell. Fathers strapping on their kids drive massive engagement on popular accounts like DILFS of Disneyland and Daddy Doin Work.” In fact, such DILF-related fervor has inspired Cory Pedersen, the founder of the O.R.G.A.S.M. (Observations and Research in Gender and Sexuality Matters) Research Lab at Kwantlen Polytechnic University in Canada, to embark upon the first empirical study of the attractiveness of DILFs, or Dads I’d Like to Fuck, entitled, naturally, “In Search of the Appeal of the ‘DILF,’” a collaboration between Pedersen and other researchers at the O.R.G.A.S.M. Lab.FINSTER
This quote about the appeal of the DILF seems to be based on research gleamed from interviews with women. But I'm not a woman and the appeal of the DILF as a good partner to raise children is lost on me. Well, I like DILFs because I like older men. Especially when it comes to fucking. There. I said it. I like men who are seasoned. I like men in their forties and up. When I was watching that  Billionaire fashion show I posted at the beginning, I was thinking 'so where are all these men?' Because after reading the article about them I thought they should be more popular. There are DILFS all over! Even the ones that are not technically ‘daddies’ in the most strict sense of the world.I think being a DILF is an attitude. And more men should own being a DILF.





I think DILFs are hot. 
In the rarified atmosphere that some gay men live in, you'd think anybody over twenty-five is devoid of a sex drive. Apparently for some men you only exist as a sex object between the ages of eighteen and twenty nine? Then there's what? The Gay Twilight Zone? Really, people. Get a grip. At the first hint of gray hair, apparently something catastrophic happens and then boom! Done. The moment one's midsection expands and does not fit in that pair of 30 inch jeans, the sex appeal is gone. Once your jawline is no longer fit to cut ice, disaster strikes. Bye-bye mojo. Done. Adios. 




In the words of my beloved Amy Winehouse, what kind of fuckery is that? Do people think we stay taut and snatched forever? Do all gay men think that bee-stung lips and 2% body fat last for a lifetime? Don't gay men know that we peak in our late twenties physically but sexually we peak way after forty? Twenty year olds may be having more vigorous sex, but men over forty seem to be BETTER at sex. So it's not like I'm trying to make DILF happen. It already is happening. Women have caught up with it. Just ask Anne Marie. And I think gay men should, too. I've previously come out in praise of the older male and here's probably the second installment of that series. And I'll keep doing it. Because sex drive does not end at twenty-five. Trust me, the mojo goes on.




So I'm here for the slight moobs, the little overhang, the gray hair. I don't care about six packs, I'd rather take time to explore the six ways a DILF would have to make me moan and groan.




XOXO


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  1. I'd do these guys! as ella sang: "t'aint what you do, it's the way that you do it". at age 64.5, I can still have a double orgasm. and thanks for the shout-out, luv! SMOOCH!

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    1. Ohhh am I jealous of those double orgasms girls can get! 🤓

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  2. Speaking as someone who saw forty come and go twenty years ago, I think that we’re also more appreciative of the attention 😉. Also I didn’t begin exploring sex with men until around forty. But I do know that I am having some wonderful, exciting sex right now. And a lot of that has to do with the guy with whom I’m experiencing it with. And for that I am eternally grateful.

    XOXO 👨‍❤️‍💋‍👨

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    1. You two......are giving me some naughty fantasy s

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    2. Oh Maddie... if you’d only knew! 😄😉🤓

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    3. Always glad to help Mistress 😎

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  3. O.R.G.A.S.M. Research Lab? They must have interesting business cards!

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  4. I used to like a DILF but as I've grown older,I realize that the DILFs I used to love are now the same age as I am.
    Does that make me a DILF?

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  5. First off I love you for mentioning Amy Winehouse!!!! Second I love diltf. Older men always make me excited and horny. Daddy Warbucks the one of two guys I see is most definitely a sexy dilf. And there is no question a guy with a kid is hot, and I dont know why. I used to be friend with a guy who had kids with his partner....and he wanted to hook up or at the least run one off together weekly. As hard as that was, I turned him down, because he was hot....and I know I would want more in the long run. When it comes to dilfs....like gin, I have no control.

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    1. Oh, honey. Same!
      And I ADORE Amy. Will never recover from her passing.

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    2. I was a HUGE Amy fan and even did a giveaway of Amy stuff once on my blog. Not to mention a week worth of a songs a year after her passing. I too took her death hard...I have no idea why, never met her.....but I really loved her , and her style...and vocals. Most people have no idea she was aaround longer than just her US career. Her first cd was rather enjoyable and plucky.

      Since my dilf isn't here maybe Ill break out my Winehouse collections tonight. Take care Spence!!!!!

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  6. For some reason, scruffy guys in their 40's put a little spring in my walk.

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    1. Every time someone gets a hard on on this blog for one of these post's subjects...we need that sound effect. Booooooiiiiinnnnngggggg!

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  7. Dejando a un lado lo mucho que se podría hablar sobre ese tema de la intolerancia patológica gay ha ja el envejecimiento y el paso del tiempo, a mi siempre me han gustado los hombres más mayores que yo. No se si la cosa cambiará con el tiempo y a partir de cierta edad la tendencia se ira invirtiendo y el hombre perfecto va quedando por detrás de uno mismo con los años, supongo que si porque no me veo aparcado a la puerta de un geriátrico esperando ver salir a mi hombre perfecto, jeje, pero a día de hoy, donde este un maduro que se quite un jovenzuelo imberbe. Que no se si era exactamente el tema del día porque mi inglés no es muy bueno (lo mio es el alemán, ya sabes, jeje) pero ahí queda dicho....¡Feliz fin de semana, guapo!

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    1. Nada, Angelito, que has dado en el clavo! Y yo creo que nos vamos adaptando a medida que envejecemos. Es que no me veo se sesenta con uno de veinte. Y a ver que si escribes una entrada en alemán ya me va a tocar pulsar el botón del traductor de Google!
      👨‍❤️‍💋‍👨

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  8. El traductor de Google siempre ha sido mi amigo. Siempre que Sixpence publique en Español, voy allí para la traducción y confío en él para publicar una respuesta en Español. 😎

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  9. Kudos for this post. It seems all advertising geared towards gay men features guys no older than 27. Even when I was in my 30s I was always attracted to men older than me. Now north of 50 I can say my taste hasn't changed. Call 'em mature, call 'em dilfs, whatever... they're hot to me and apparently lots of others.

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