OTP Five
This may not come to a surprise to Jimmy (who has mentioned them before), but Mr. Kristofer and Amp are one of my all time OTPs. Love them! Really. And not only because I want Mr. Kristofer to have his way with me one hundred ways while Amp... helps. You know how that'd go. They're one of my OTPs because, well, I LIKE their relationship. #relationshipgoals totally.
They are one of the most adorable couples I've seen in this era of social media and no secrets, and their banter on #wattsthesafeword is hilarious. They're one of those couples that you just KNOW have good sex. And the Goddess is my witness, if a man has a wicked sense of humor, you're gonna have good sex. Additionally, they're both sex workers so there's that. But really. Amp is literally a pup and Daddy, well, Daddy is daddy. There's nothing funnier than Amp trying to explain Daddy shit like YouTuber shenanigans, Manga, make up, drag, or anything else you may think a cross-generational couple could talk about. But there's respect and affection and an undercurrent of good naturedness that always gets me. They know each other well, and not only in the biblical sense, and that shows.
If you have not watched their channel, you have got to get thee to YouTube and add them. Now. They give some of the most complete, informed (and hysterically funny) tutorials on sex ed I've ever seen. But they've paid for actually offering accurate sex ed to people on YouTube . YouTube has demonetized them (and other LGBTQ sex educators) many, many times. You know, It's America, so racism and bigotry fly under the radar on YouTube, but teaching about sex? How do people DARE!
Their channel covers everything, from kink to vanilla, from BDSM to how to better suck dick (sorry, Debra!) and they have invited literally the rainbow to their channel. I've learned more about sexuality watching Amp and Mr. Kristofer than by reading the Kinsey Reports. The language they use is accessible, even when explaining the intricacies of poly relationships, BDSM or kinks related to trees. Yep, I watched that one, too.
So they are poly and are into kink. They are nonmonogamous and appear to live on of top of each other (sorry, had to). They're together but are independent. And IMHO that's the best way to live with someone you love: you each have your own space and you get together when you want to, be it every moment of the day or for dinner and 'conversation'. What's not to like? I think that would be my ideal setup. So check them out, and if you learn something you didn't know, let us know.
Also, if you decide to do the clone-a-willy please send me photos. For science's sake, of course.
XOXO
And of course, this one:
P.S:
DAD-DY!
*his t-shirt, though...
Oh....
a relationship based on polarity DADDY-SON
ReplyDeleteYeah, I think we we could say that.
DeleteAnd I guess that's one of the reasons why their dynamic is so interesting.
XOXO
Taking a break putting hurricane shutters on the windows. By chance, I saw the "tour" video yesterday. I was cruising Pornhub and saw a playlist of Only Fans vids ( I will never pay for porn) and have discovered Jacen_Zhu. OMG!!! Gorgeous and a fabulous Dom. And he is soooo young. OMG, OMG......
ReplyDeleteBack to Amp and Mr K,....I find a lack of intensity in "K's" vids. But that is just my take. These kinds of shoots take forever and there is more than one thing to keep up (as it where).
Lov U Six!
I agree Jimmy!!!!! Jacen_Zhu is one hot man of color. We should have a viewing party night.
DeleteYes!!!!! WOOF!!!!!!!
DeleteOh, Jimmy! I read it was headed to FL.
DeleteAnd I like watching Mr. Kristofer bone the twinks. I have to look for his videos doing BDSM though...
And Only Fans videos are awesome. And so is Jacen Zhu.
XOXO
Yeah that's right, dick sucking technique is of no interest to me, but you boys go ahead and learn all you can!
ReplyDeleteHahahaha
DeleteI knew it!
BTW, they also bring women to their podcast and to their channel and they give all kinds of fantastic advice from their point of view.
XOXO
The YouTube stuff is free? Who knew? But, Ima bet these guys could teach me a thing or a million. Subjects for my blog, maybe? Lord knows, after almost 10 years, I've run out of new topics.
ReplyDeleteLong-term relationships are not easy to navigate, that's for sure. #OwnSpace and #metime are as ultra important as togetherness if one is to be successful. 😊
XOXO
Maybe a little CBT.
DeleteLOL
DeleteOh, Big.
Yes, you may find one thing or two that you did not know about. I know I have!
And long term relationships do have their kinks (and not the good ones). I think the balance between keeping together and keep being ourselves is essential.
XOXO
Going on 34 years now. We've learned to allow one another to have outside interests, to give one another space and time. Plus, I know I'm doubly fortunate in that she hasn't abandoned me in my struggles to maintain a life with Muscular Dystrophy.
DeleteWhoa.
DeleteAnd I think those are definitely things that contribute to the longevity of the relationship. And I didn't know about the MD, Big! I kind of imagined something like that when you wrote on your blog about muscle pain, but I didn't want to assume anything.
XOXO
I agree about the set up...That works for me well with the Lad and Daddy Warbucks. To a tee. But I give these two props for living the way they want. They don't do anything for me and neither does the dungeon and leather sex, although I do like some kink, but nothing hardcore. I do know two guys like them I met three years ago while walking buster, who had just moved here. About a year ago I learned their like this couple. They said they'd like to get me in their "play room" but I declined several times, but their cool with it. The invitation still stands. Ill give them your name.
ReplyDeleteI know, right?
DeleteI think it's a good balance between being together and not being obtrusive.
And I like the whole leather thing more as an idea (role play, freedom to explore) than an actual lifestyle. The Dom/Sub dynamic could get old for me quickly.
And you could give them my name! LOL Who knows after this pandemic?
XOXO
I also just watched the Clone a Dick. I would try that. Is it safe to say I then can fuck myself with my own dick?
ReplyDeleteI think that’s what they mean when they say go fuck yourself.
DeleteHahaha
DeleteHoney, if you clone it, make sure you trademark it.
Bet you could make a fortune!
XOXO
They are a great couple and play off each other well. I don’t watch them regularly (no time to watch anything regularly these days) but I have caught some of their stuff occasionally. And you can’t be a couple 24/7 otherwise you become dependent on the other person for your happiness. That’s not healthy.
ReplyDeleteXOXO 👨❤️💋👨
They're super cute.
DeleteAnd informative! This arrangement they have in their living quarters bet it came super handy during these times of sheltering in place.
XOXO
Hmmm. Well, I am all for sex positive role models and education. I care not what form. The BDSM? Meh. Too many props. It becomes a production of Noises Off. And as a constant lifestyle? Also, naw. Costumes belong on stage, not in my bed. I am always intrigued by something new, but novelties remain exactly that. Kudos to these two, though. And Youtube . What a nutpunch. Seriously. Facebook and Youtube. Total a-holes. They promote and support inappropriate influencers all the time, but you mention a penis and OH MY. But show me the body of someone who committed suicide and... oh, okay... you get a pass. F THEM.
ReplyDeleteI think so, too! I'm all for sex-positivity.
DeleteAnd you are right about the whole BDSM paraphernalia. I get overwhelmed sometimes when I read or learn about it.
And Facebook and YouTube only care about keeping us watching or looking at things. WE are the product. They place themselves as the defenders of freedom of speech, but THEY decide what kind of speech is freer. The one that gives them money, of course.
XOXO
They are funny as hell.
ReplyDeleteI think so, too.
DeleteI love the banter and the way they show affection. It's always refreshing to see men show affection in public.
XOXO
I learn so much coming to your blog, Sixpence. I don't know if I am ready for everything I learn but I am grateful that I can visit and expand my horizons. Thank you for helping me be a better human.
ReplyDeleteAww Mr, Shife!
DeleteYou're too kind. And I think you're ready for all of this. It's another point of view, I guess. And looking at those always makes us aware of new things.
And you're welcome!
XOXO