Ask A Gay Porn Star ANYTHING

When it comes to gay porn stars, I always try to go beyond the hard dicks and the beautiful bodies. Just because. I wanna know more about THEM. For men who let us see their most intimate moments, there’s not a lot written or said about what they think. So when videos like this come out, I’m all ears. Especially when they tell us things about themselves. 

As an experiment, I'm going to try to answer the questions Davey asks them. For example:

How do you cum on command?

I can't cum on command. Really. It's not something that I can just do. Cumming on command is a talent. I've known men who can do it, though. I had a boyfriend who would ask me if I was going to cum and when I said 'yes' he'd just cum. Just like that. Every time. I was in awe.

How do you prepare for bottoming on camera?

Oh, dear. Have you seen that scene on The Other Two where two guys negotiate bottoming? I wish it were that easy. Of course it'd take a minute. It does not happen just naturally. I know, I know. It involves more than five minutes in the shower. I'm amazed by how gay porn stars do it. Really.

How long before you shoot do you meet your partner?

Now, this would be an issue. Did you know that some porn stars meet the man they're fucking on the spot? I think this is why I'm not good with hookups. The wham-bam-thank-you-man routine is not one that I feel comfortable with. I need to have at least had a conversation with the man, for Goddess' sake!

Do you talk about your turn on/offs before the scene?

I think this needs to be a conversation we have with every man we go to bed with. Sometimes think work so well that you just click. He just seems to read you perfectly well and you sense what he likes. But those occasions are few and in between. You do need to talk.

Does it feel awkward having sex in front of a dressed crew?

Yes. Well, I'm not a porn star. I'm also not an an exhibitionist. I've never had sex in front of people. In public? Yes. In front of other people? Never. Ever. Yes, I'm a prude.

How do you perform with someone that you're not attracted to?

I can't. I won't. 

This is one of the things I admire about porn stars: they can perform with someone even when they're not into that person. Talent.

What's more difficult, being a top or a bottom?

I'd say they're both equally difficult? Bottoming though, has baggage attached to it. I think there IS such thing as Top Privilege. Also, douching. 

What is your best advice for people who are nervous in the bedroom?

Know your partner. Be at ease with your body. Talk.

Does dick size and a six pack matter?

No. They don't. Are they great attributes? Yes. Who would say no to a big dick attached to a man with great abs? Please. Are they necessary for good sex? Nope. And I have extensive first hand experience in the field. A big dick and a six pack a good lover do not make. It's how the man works that dick and how he treats me what counts. 

At what age do people age out of the industry?

Well, we have all seen that 'being long on the tooth' is a common commentary when talking about gay porn stars. But we also have men like Rocco Steele, Dean Phoenix, Myles Landon and the such who are going strong after forty and fifty. 

What is something you refuse to do?

I'm not a friend of brown hankies. Or black hankies. Or red hankies. Also, rape scenarios or extreme humiliation are a no. 

Does your work cause a strain in your romantic life?

I cannot imagine the pressure. If our jobs actually affect our romantic lives, can you imagine what being a porn star could do? The traveling. The testing. The amount of self-esteem involved with having a relationship with someone who has sex for a living. It should be heavy. I have never dated a porn star or a sex worker. So I don't have first hand experience with that. But I think it would need to be an open relationship and it would take work to make it work.

What's the funniest accident that has happened (during a shoot)?

Oh, wow. Probably getting the giggles because of some flatulence? I can imagine porn stars have much, much worse scenarios to talk about though...

Do you still enjoy sex with normal people?

Haha. Well, I only have sex with normal people, but can you imagine a porn star? Being used to having sex with men who have outstanding bodies and are in top physical shape would give anybody reason to actually have sex with men who are NOT that beautiful, I think? But of course, when I look at the men in a gay club, or a hookup app you would think only the beautiful and fit can and will fuck.

Have you fallen in love during a shoot?

I can imagine this happening. Totally. One can fall in love at any moment, no? And imagine having sex immediately after meeting someone? Someone you find attractive? The odds are you could. Ugh. I'd be in such trouble all the time...

Do you have a plan for life after porn?

I think everybody needs a plan for life after anything it is that we do. What about retirement? What about this pandemic? I know a lot of people have had to change gears to meet the demands of being faced with an uncertain paycheck. Can you imagine porn stars? 

So that's my take. And you, do you have what it takes to be a porn star?

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