Oh, Cade....

I love it when Porn Stars show another side of themselves. After all, we have seen them from every conceivable ange (and beyond!) but I really like it when they show their personalities. It's illuminating. Now, Mr. Maddox is obviously  quite delectable, and on-screen he has that sexy beast aura to him that communicates that he REALLY likes to fuck. No question why he won that 2020 GayVN performer of the year award. My kind of man.

Also, he brings up some very good points in his convo with Davey: whole body pleasure is necessary when you're having sex. Your whole body is an erogenous zone, right? Some tops think that the dick is all they need. Nope. A top needs to check to see if things are going well with whomever it is they're fucking. Nipples, toes, fingers, mouth. Also, the more a top pleasures his bottom, the more pleasure he'll get. As Cade says, basic stuff.

Also, did you hear Cade talking about the penis pump and wanting to have a bigger dick? Porn Stars. They're just like us. As for doing your research, Cade's right. A top needs to do some reading (and some hands on activities) to make sure he knows how to fuck a bottom. Some men have undeniably fantastic cocks. They have the drive. And yet, they suck in bed. And not the good way, either. To be a good top, a man needs to know how to proceed to make his bottom's experience memorable. And there's where many fail. I think that some tops, wrapped up in their 'total top' bullshit and believing their own hype, forget that it does take two to tango. No matter if they have an awesome dick. If they cannot work with it, what's the use?

Now, the point they make of taking breaks while having sex is a really good one. Life is not porn, people. Porn is not life. But we have to think that a whole generation of gay men has grown up watching porn and they think what they see on the screen is what they should be getting in bed. It's a no, dearies. Those thirty minutes you watch on video are probably six or seven hours of fucking, tightly  and carefully edited. Taking breaks and going back to the matter at hand is super fun and it allows for some play. Which I'd think is the purpose of fucking? 

Oh, the golden rule: ask your bottom how he LIKES to get fucked. IF he likes to get fucked. Some men prefer power play, or BDSM or only oral, or frottage... You'd think that is essential, but you'd be surprised if you realize that very few tops actually slip the question. And like belly buttons, everybody has got an opinion concerning positions to get fucked (or not). Sometimes it's missionary, sometimes it's small spoon, sometimes it's doggie style. Sometimes it's all of them in quick succession. Sometimes is none of them. But between you and I,  make sure you ask. It's the polite (and hot) thing to do.

And this is not the first time Mr. Maddox has impressed me. Apart from his obvious sex-appeal, he comes across as warmer than your average big-dicked garden variety gay porn star. For another look (you've already got the basics, natch) at Cade, check out his IG and his Twitter. And his OnlyFans, in case you're wondering...

XOXO

P,S, my favorite Cade Maddox video is this one.