Red and Greene

 

STR8UPGAYPORN

I had no idea that Dacotah Red and Daniel Greene were married. And who are those gentlemen, would you ask? Well, they're porn performers. Isn't it funny how we know these men's bodies and proclivities but we don't know much about them? I think most people just get their rocks off and on they go. I, on the other side, like to know what's going on under the hood. Kinda.

So Dacotah and Daniel were married for two years (so sweet!) and now they're divorced (too bad!). And as you could imagine, there's drama. According to STR8UPGAYPORN, the split was not amicable. Nope. This is what Daniel wrote after Dacotah mentioned some missing money:

"Come the beginning of 2021 you found yourself reaching out to me. Reaching out because your lies came crashing and burning right in front of your face. Due to the fact that we were still legally married I was the most capable of contacting state and federal agencies. Ensuring your individual rights were being protected. I’m at peace knowing you came out of the military, your AWOL, all the turmoil, with your head held high, and with a bold demeanor. I will always want the best for the both of us as individuals even when I’m not always sure what that might be. This is not a “developing story.” I’m not here to play some form of a blame game. I’m here in hopes to portray the reality that our marriage has greater complexity beyond any blog post, and anyone that would take something as sacred as a marriage with such a surface level idea is living in pure ignorance."

Absolut drama. I cannot imagine what the pressures are like for a couple when both work in the adult industry. If when you're in a relationship there are arguments about what place to visit for vacations or what kind of joint account you're going to have or who's going to take the garbage out.  Just think about the situations in which you will find yourselves if you are both porn actors. Did you know that sex and money are the two main causes of problems for couples? Imagine the minefield people would have to walk if you are both sex workers. During a pandemic. You can add to the mix that apparently Dacotah was AWOL and that Daniel started porn just last year and voilà. Powder keg.

I'm kind of sad it didn't work out. You see, I like the idea that porn stars are just like us and they have relationships just like ours. They just get paid to fuck handsome men and then go home and have dinner and watch Netflix in their PJs. Why not? Sex work is just work. Once you're not working, you are not an accountant/ architect/ data entry person. You are you. So Dacotah and Daniel are no longer a couple. Daniel has deleted his social media accounts but Dacotah's twitter and his only fans are still alive and kicking. Hopefully it'll go well for both of them. 

I like Dacotah. He’s tall and a redhead (yum) and has a voracious approach to sex that would motivate anybody to, well, join him. Daniel is handsome and boyish and apparently very versatile. Hopefully they’ll continue providing us with .... motivation and their careers will flourish. Being an gay porn star is not easy, no matter how easy they make it look on the screen. Same goes for relationships. 

XOXO

DANIELGREENE

DACOTAHRED