moan for me.

 

“When you hear someone moan, it’s a primal cue for a visceral emotion,” says Dipsea’s Head of Audio and resident moan director Kristina Loring. “When someone moans in pleasure, it signals deep satisfaction. It’s sexy in part because you’re witnessing someone in a vulnerable state of release. And if you or whatever you’re doing is the catalyst for the moan, what a satisfying exchange.” 

MEL

I really like it when men talk dirty to me. No surprise there, huh? But I also like men who moan and groan and are noisy when in bed. Especially when they cum. And no, I don't need them to alert the neighbors. But a little vocalization has never hurt anybody and it has pushed me over the edge more than one time. Oh, come on. You're reading this. You know that there's going to be TMI. It's my trademark. Also, as the article says, it signals to me deep satisfaction and it turns me on because I feel he feels free and comfortable enough to be vocal about how he feels. The intimacy of sex is always intensified by things other than the obvious exchange of fluids and the turgid nature of foreplay. It's what happens DURING sex what makes you shiver and makes your toes curl.

Oh, and there are many kinds of sounds that I find especially... titillating? Because not everybody is the same and every man expresses himself differently. Some are very vocal, some only groan or moan when they cum and some are just the strong, silent type. It really does not matter. But I do have to say that a little noise has never hurt anybody. I have a theory: men who grew up in a house with many siblings or little privacy tend to be quieter in bed. You only know they're about to come by their grip or their breathing. Also, men who are intense and private tend to be quieter. And this is absolutely impressionistic. Just a little qualitative research I've carried out throughout the years...

Now, when it comes to moaning and groaning, there's nothing written, though. These are my top three from the Mel Magazine article, presented here with very handy soundbytes:

3. YEAUUUH

Occasionally pronounced “Nyyyeeaah” with a more solid n-sound up front, this slightly more spirited moan is one of the most recognizable sounds in both porn and IRL sex. Its affirmative definition — “yeah” means “yes” — tends to mean that you’ve hit some sort of physical, psychological or interdimensional spot — which is handy for when you’re sitting there like, “…how to penis?” — and it’s a good indication that you should keep going with whatever it is you’re doing.

2. EXPLETIVES

As is the case with anybody’s moans, they’re often combined with some sort of pointed curse that offers a satisfying sharpness to cut through all the round, drawn-out vowel sounds with. Expressive but not necessarily emotive, expletives are another way to say “WHOA, MY PENIS!” without actually saying it, a handy tactic if you’re trying to play it cool, but also kind of can’t. 

1. OOOOOHH

Did you just hit a spot from a new angle? Keep sucking after he cums? Switch the direction of your knob slob? Congratulations, you might have made a little “ooh”-sound come out. Decidedly fluttery and generally understood to convey “delightful surprise,” this moan is most often exhaled by people having some sort of eye-opening moment or sensation they weren’t expecting. 

So yeah. Let's get loud. Please note that if he's the strong, silent type I'm not gonna say no, but if he DOES moan and groan, it's so much more fun for both of us (how about this guy Xersex posted?). I just think it makes things more fun. 

XOXO

P.S. apparently, men in Reddit and other forums online freak out about how much moaning is too much, but youtube is full of men totally into letting the world hear them loud and clear.