That's the title of one of my favourite songs. The most lethal, the most essential thing is to hear your own voice. Also, keeping up with the idea of writing as catharsis, this one blog is dedicated all to myself. More solipsism would be hard to find. And I like it like that. Oh, and this is a queer (and self-proclaimed 'ADULT') blog so go ahead, make your day... mine is done.
As we’re inundated with reminders about loving others on Valentine’s Day, it can be hard to remember how important it is to love ourselves. As Mama Ru herself put it, if you can't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?
Self-love is self-compassion: the act of being kind and understanding toward yourself, regardless of external markers of success or value, even during times of hardship or failure. Treating yourself with empathy and love can help you build resilience and self-worth, which makes it easier to create healthy boundaries with others, resolve conflicts, and communicate in relationships.
Happy Valentines Day my friend. Like you, to me, the most important part of the day is it is a global celebration of love in its most pure form. That and chocolate.
it is very important to love ourselves, because we are the only person we will be with all our lives, from our birth to our death. So if we don't get along with ourselves, life will be very hard.
It is of paramount importance, really. If we do not love ourselves, our lives can get miserable pretty quickly. And make everybody's lives as miserable as ours.
Big says, All good advice. For some folks, #3 can be difficult to do. Especially when you are the person most everyone else reaches to to for help. XOXO Happy Valentine's Day, Six 😘
HuntleyBiGuy: Sometimes we doubt ourselves and don’t think we’re worthy of love, from ourselves or anyone else. But like so many have said above, YES WE ARE! We have to be kind to ourselves and realize that we must love ourselves so that we can share it with others.
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Never have been big into Valentine's day.
ReplyDeleteBut this post is not ABOUT Valentine's, Dave.
DeleteIf anything, it's an anti-Valentine's post. It's about loving ourselves inconditionally.
XOXO
Funny cartoon and wise advice! Happy Valentines Day!
ReplyDeleteHahaha
DeleteYes! Happy Valentine's, Debra!!
XOXO
Happy Valentines Day my friend. Like you, to me, the most important part of the day is it is a global celebration of love in its most pure form. That and chocolate.
ReplyDeleteHappy V Day, Babes!
DeleteAnd you just KNOW that Chocolate makes everything better!
XOXO
it is very important to love ourselves, because we are the only person we will be with all our lives, from our birth to our death. So if we don't get along with ourselves, life will be very hard.
ReplyDeleteIt is of paramount importance, really.
DeleteIf we do not love ourselves, our lives can get miserable pretty quickly. And make everybody's lives as miserable as ours.
XOXO
Big says,
ReplyDeleteAll good advice. For some folks, #3 can be difficult to do. Especially when you are the person most everyone else reaches to to for help. XOXO
Happy Valentine's Day, Six 😘
Yes!
DeleteThat's the struggle. Happy VDay, Big!
XOXO
HuntleyBiGuy:
ReplyDeleteSometimes we doubt ourselves and don’t think we’re worthy of love, from ourselves or anyone else. But like so many have said above, YES WE ARE! We have to be kind to ourselves and realize that we must love ourselves so that we can share it with others.
Happy Valentine’s Day babe. You are worthy.
XOXO 👨🏼❤️💋👨🏽
Aww
DeleteHappy VDay babe.
XOXO
Happy Valentine's darling! The cupid balloon had me in stitches hell that would probably be my luck, which is why I haven't taken that job!
ReplyDeleteHappy Valentine's, Mads!!
DeleteAnd you know how it is when it comes to balloons, now! LOL
XOXO