Fanny Pack

Oh, bottoming. Not everybody does it but many people like it. And nobody talks about it. Why is that?? You cannot swing a cat without hitting men declaring they are TotalTops© for everybody to hear. But bottoms? Apparently nobody is a bottom because nobody talks about bottoming. But the truth is, without bottoms there's no tops, honey.

And in order to bottom,  there's some things that need to be done. Because even though having anal is not in every gay man's repertory, it's something that deserves discussion. There's a certain reticence to talk about something as normal (and common) as getting prepared to have sex (no pizza, some water, etc...) and sometimes not even men who have been in a relationship for awhile talk about it. People just seem forget what it takes to bottom.

So I'm here to talk about it. What better time to talk about bottoming than during Pride week? And when I said I'm gonna talk about it, I meant having @TheBottom'sDigest (a.k.a. Alex Hall) talk about the seven essentials a bottom would need for Pride:

• Lube: never leave home without it. I'd rather leave my underwear home.
• A small douche: it can save your date. Trust me on this one.
• Condoms: because yes. No matter if you're on PreP. Nothing beats a condom when it comes to impromptu sex with a beautiful stranger. Madonna has talked about this.
• A small toy: Jimmy asked me about my fav dildo. I told him I swear by my Aneros. Go google it.
• Supplements: Fiber is your best friend, no matter what position you're playing. Really. Especially when you're eating out.
• Liquid IV packet: Lifesaving for those who drink. Or not. Pride can be dehydrating. 
• Aquaphor: Oh, you don't even know how useful this can be. 

And if you wanna know more -yes, even TotalTops© need to know about how bottoming works-, just follow @TheBottom'sDigest. I promise you'll learn a lot. From cooking delicious meals that are good for your (and his) tummy (and diet) to tricks that'll make you a better Bottom. Or Top. Because a good Top KNOWS how -and when- to Top, hunny. And it takes more than a hard dick to do that.

Happy Pride!

XOXO

P.S. Pride suggestion for today:

@ammonite