The hard, truth...?
Oh yes.
Staying hard. Yeah. Many have been there, some have done that. But many, indeed, have not.
Is it a tragedy if a guy loses his boner in the middle of having fun? No, of course it isn't. Do you always need to be rock hard to have a good time? Absolutely not. But if you'd hear men talking about it, you'd think it's the end of the world as we know it if they lose their erection while in the throes of sexy times. Here is where I think Lesbians have the upper hand. Cause they don't give a shit about boners! They just have fun.
I think porn has influenced many a gay man (and many, many a straight one) into thinking that they have got to be rock hard (and be huge) at all times in order to 'perform' well and be epic in bed. Nothing further to the truth. I'll give you an example (and it comes from extensive field work, natch): if you have a big dick, it's better to have a chub (a.k.a. a soft on) if you want me to give you excellent head. Why? Because *blushes* I can suck paint off a truck, but if you have a nine incher, it's going to be challenging to give you the Linda Lovelace treatment if you are indeed, rock hard. Now, if your dick is fluffed, but not rock hard, I'll get to the short and curlies of the business in no time and you'll have the time of your life (I also swallow, but that may have to be material for another post). So there.
So is it a rock-hard dick necessary for good sex? Not always. You are not in a gay porn set. It's very useful if you're gonna hit it from behind, for example, or if you like it Reverse Cowboy style. But it is not essential. After all, you still have your hands, and your fingers and your mouth, no? It's not like the only tool (hehehe) you have is your dick, right? That hard dick may be necessary for a good boning (and I really enjoy that, too!), but it is not always essential for a good fuck. Don't believe me?
Well, maybe after listening to the experts, you'll have a better idea...
XOXO
Of course lesbians have the upper hand, hahahahaha!
ReplyDeleteLMAOOO
DeleteI know, right????
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Once upon a time there was a fluffer, now there is Viagra and similar products.
ReplyDeleteOh, fluffers were a mood.
DeleteI think I even saw a movie about a fluffer. More organic, too.
Chemicals are maybe more effective, but... cold?
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Unless one has erectile dysfunction or is too tired, if one is truly involved and wanting sex, no chemical help would be needed, imho.
DeleteWell, the thing is that sometimes there's a will but there's not a boner, for whatever reason. And that should not be the end of the world.
DeleteMen are delicate creatures.
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I always thought it had a lot to do with boredom.
ReplyDeleteIt's a job.
DeleteIt's like working on retail: getting employee discount does not make for the fact that it's a job...
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Big says,
ReplyDeleteGreat video! Important info for people to hear. Taking boner meds at 19????
Injection erections can hurt like a MF...experience. Yeah. This is where porn induces unrealistic expectations. And the straight porn industry does the same thing. It's normal for the boner to go down some during sex...especially if you are trying to prolong the experience for more than a quickie thrust and cum. XOXO
Oh, men are taking Viagra at a younger and younger age.
DeleteIt's the pressure. And the easiness of a pill. I cannot imagine injecting my dick for any amount of money. Nope.
And excitement ebbs and flows! Whomever does not understand that does not deserve to get fucked.
XOXO
I agree with a lot of what you said my fellow slut!!! Generally I myself don't have too many problems ever getting hard even if I have two rounds. I just think it's because I'm a pig, but I used to see a man years ago who had erectile problems, and I never had a problem with him being flaccid, and he rather enjoyed the things I did to him. He had what I called a nice hang anyhow. But when I've been on trips and I know we're going to get saucy some of my friends are like here Maddie here's some little blue pills in case you need them. I always tell them no thanks. They take them because they want to have sex all night. But luckily I can still have sex all night and have not needed blue pills. Yet.
ReplyDeleteSo you can suck painting Off the Wall huh. What are you doing next Friday night?
Oh, Mads.
DeleteYou are one of the fortunate ones. Every boner is a blessing, is something I usually post on Big's blog but it's true. I have known men like you and they're super fun. I have had to ask for a break to catch my breath.
And yes, I do have my way with paint, mind you...
XOXO
I guess you do what you do with what you got and make it work. Is that it?
ReplyDeletexoxo
Yes!
DeleteAnd most men lose hardness at a point or another during sex. It's not a big deal. Come on. Unless you are in porn, that is...
XOXO
HuntleyBiGuy:
ReplyDeleteI’ve needed many paint job after meeting up with you 😎. Porn will induce performance anxiety, and just about anyone. We get it in our head that we always have to be on and ready. Let me tell you as we get older, Maddie not withstanding, there’s a good chance you’re not always going to be ready. But as you said, there are other ways to have a good time. Anyone up for a game of Clue?
XOXO 👨🏼❤️💋👨🏽
Hahahaha
DeleteYes. But you are right: porn can induce performance anxiety on anybody silly enough to think it's real. And I know your ways. You say 'Clue' and one ends up against a wall...
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