Oh, Thomas...

Well, Thomas is very handsome. And you know I’m partial to men with facial hair. So watching the video was more than easy even though I got distracted plenty of times. He also managed to answer some questions throughout his workout. Multitasking. It's a skill. So let's see:

1. I have never had trouble talking about my experiences when I start seeing someone. I've had some long term relationships and some short ones. I had also been slightly slutty in the interim. It has to come up organically, though. It's not like you need to blurt out your sexual history the second you meet a man, no?

2. Dadbod. Definitely. A man who's too fit would make me feel slightly schloppy. I don't have a six pack and I am not muscular. Why would I demand that the man I'm going to date/bed be those things? Would I say 'no' if he's athletic? Don't be silly. It's just not a condition.

3. Gay age gap? Yes, please. But strangely, I refuse to even look at men under thirty five at this point. Seriously. I'm all with Upton on this one. It would not be dating. It would be tutoring. 

4. Ohhh Ideal first date? Going crate digging or going to play/concert. Kinda surrounded by people but still sharing a unique experience. No? I'm not a friend of dinner and a movie, even though that could tell you if he knows how to use cutlery... (and no, I would not rule out getting handsy with him. I'm slightly slutty, hunny).

5. Oh, dear. I think we all know if we are a Top or a Bottom? We all know what we like to feel in bed, I think. And he forgot the 'Sides'. Too binary. I think many people can be Vers, but I have known Total Tops and Power Bottoms who do not deviate from their preferences in bed. More power to them. I have to confess that I like me a good Total Top who knows how to suck dick. I think some people need to experiment, though, but many people can switch easily, depending on who their sex partner is. I think that’s awesome. 

6. My least fave holiday could be... Thanksgiving? It's so bloated and so forced sometimes? I do not eat a lot, so once I'm done I just sit at the table and chat with people? My fav is New Year's (sorry, Thomas!) because I always spend it with people I love. And I don't have to go out to celebrate. Staying home is cool. 

7. What do I do for a living? I'm a full time blogger. Just ask Lurkie. Kidding! Let's say I work for an institution that deals with education. Maybe that’s why I will never have children. EVER.

8. Nope, I never beat up anybody in high school. I was pretty chill. I was not bullied, either. The thing is, I was always hanging out with the jocks because I was brainy and I helped them with their homework. Many of them felt kinda protective, I imagine, because I was slim and cute and looked younger than my age. Perks of being a Wallflower, I guess.

9. Nope, I don't have an Only fans. But Thomas does: @thomasmatthew

10. Whoa. Thomas didn't seem too keen on telling his audience if he's a Top or a Bottom? Maybe the mystery would help keep the mystique up? I have no idea. Maybe some men don't like the world to know? And you already know about me. Or would you like me to spell it out? Hahahaha. Oh well.

XOXO

P.S. Thomas has many interests. Here's his links: @TommyMay10 and his Insta is cute: @TommyMay10