Oh, it's hard...?

Crush is candid and always fun but he’s right about many things in this video. Topping can have its own struggles (wouldn’t you know), but keep some things in mind because you’re not a content creator. Yet.

Yes, we’re all safe. But still, condoms are a thing and they come handy even when they go on inside out. Don’t despair. Bring several just in case (you know which are your favs). And try again. Or, even better, let HIM try putting it on you. It’s more fun that way. 

Never worry about your penis size. Ever. What’s small to one man is huge for another. And vice versa. So just let him enjoy what you’ve got. And remember some men will be tight. Yeah. That does happen. So relax. Bring lube. And enjoy the ride. Literally. 

There ARE femme tops out there. And not all the Masc4Masc gays are tops, after all… same goes for short kings (a.k.a pocket gays) who excel at topping. Topping is an attitude. And it comes in many sizes, shapes and moods. 

If you ask him where to ejaculate and he says ‘anywhere’ be creative but avoid the face (the first time). Trust him. If he says ‘anywhere’ he’s letting you choose. For real… Don’t overthink it. As Nike said, just do it. 

You’re not getting rock hard right away? No problem. After all, you are not filming for only fans. It happens more often than you think, too! Even the pros go through it. Go back to foreplay or snuggle him. It’ll be fine at the end. And don’t sweat it if you decide to go for a Blue Angel once in a blue moon. That’s exactly what it was made for. 

And that’s just a primer. If I think about anything else, I’ll come back to this. 

XOXO 

P. S. Remember @crushdaddy is on insta and he’s a very interesting dude. He's also 6'5" so I'm biased, because I like  big bruisers…