Oh, Dress you up...
I know, we’ve been here. You love your khakis and your blue button downs and your jeans and your sweatpants. But there's something you’re telegraphing when you wear those, too. Oh, you thought it was that simple? And it’s not only my opinion, btw.
I choose what I wear. We all do. I know that some people would not recognize me on a weekend because I wear totally different clothes than what I wear during the week (I'm more like the person Mads saw in Philly or the person Huntley knows). I'm literally a different person when I'm not at work. Aren’t we all?
I agree with the video when they say that clothing acts as a medium of self-expression and that it becomes a powerful tool to communicate one’s identity. Clothing shows the ‘YOU’ you want people to see. That's what you're literally saying with your clothing choices. That's why I think we need to understand the significance of personal attire beyond thinking of it as just 'clothes', or thinking we don't do 'fashion' because we're not a clotheshorse. And that's because we are actually curating wardrobes that align with our true selves and we are constantly sending a message with whatever it is we are wearing...
As we transition from being dressed by others when we are children, to dressing for whatever institution we belong to (schools, the military, a retailer) to choosing our own outfits (those jeans, those sweatpants, those cargo pants, those button downs), we engage with patterns, colors, and styles that articulate out our backgrounds, values, and personalities. There's really nothing 'simple' about wearing 'simple' clothes.
And that's fashion, babes.
XOXO
You'll never see me outside my house in sweatpants...to maybe the dismay of the Lad and a few other guys I know... Only in my home or when working out in a gym will I wear them.
ReplyDeleteI'm like Joan Crawford. "'I never go outside unless I look like Joan Crawford the movie star. If you want the girl next door, go next door.'
Gosh...I don't even own sweatpants.
DeleteSweatpants outside??? Maybe if I'm taking the trash to the curb, but even then I slip into a pair of pants!!
ReplyDeleteI love a good mix of old and new, and casual and formal, and basic and flashy, just to keep folks off-guard.
I love my sweatpants, but I'm refined enough to know that they are house wear. Public wear is jeans in winter and shorts in summer, and never, ever do I wear any type shirt with a logo. I'm not being paid to advertise.
ReplyDelete"Beauty is the promise of happiness" -- nice!
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ReplyDeleteMy work attire was quite different from my theatre attire which was always very different from the non-profit fundraising attire. Now, retired from it all it's 501s, t-shirts or henleys. And, at home: nothing - or at least as little as possible (it's friggin' cold!).
XOXO