Oh, Sabar Bonda ...?
We need to think about men who are gay or bi and that do not exist in an environment where being any of those things is even ever considered a choice.
Think about it. Just for a minute.
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That's the title of one of my favourite songs. The most lethal, the most essential thing is to hear your own voice. Also, keeping up with the idea of writing as catharsis, this one blog is dedicated all to myself. More solipsism would be hard to find. And I like it like that. Oh, and this is a queer (and self-proclaimed 'ADULT') blog so go ahead, make your day... mine is done.
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It looks like a beautiful and heartbreaking film. I'd like to see it.
ReplyDeleteSame!!!
DeleteIt feels like it's gonna get me emotional...
XOXO
It breaks my heart when people cannot be their authentic selves. Can't we all just be as we are and not worry about others?
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Here's culturally bound.
DeleteMen are expected to fulfill a role and only one role.
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Big says,
ReplyDeleteThere are so many stories the world needs to see, and yet can't --- or won't --- accept as truth.
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In some cultures the idea of a man veering off a predestined life is unimaginable. Like, not even conceptualized.
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Your take on Sabar Bonda is as poetic as the film itself. The idea of 'sacrifice of footwear' being a grand romantic gesture is such a beautiful, grounded way to describe love in a world of rigid tradition. Thanks for the reminder that sometimes the most 'thorny' environments produce the sweetest fruit!
ReplyDeleteTradition!
DeleteYes, it's very stifling. The people who can really escape it are really in need to be put in the forefront. I want to see this.
XOXO
It's playing on YouTube, if you're interested.
ReplyDeleteI am!
DeleteDave, where's the link???
I could only find it in Netflix India and I don't have a VPN.
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Love is love. You love who you love. No matter where you are at or where you live. I can't imagine not loving someone you love and not being able to express it.
ReplyDeleteAnd yet many people go through that.
DeleteOther societies are REALLY rigid in what's expected of you as a man or a woman. Can you IMAGINE?
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HuntleyBiGuy:
ReplyDeleteIt’s heartbreaking when people cannot live their lives, if they’re not harming others, as they wish. And all too often it’s all because someone at sometime said “I don’t like that.” Well f**k off. We don’t care anymore.
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It is.
DeleteThat's why I'm so interested in this movie. We are very privileged.
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Great post, can't imagine not being able to love who I want. I really feel for them, heartbreaking.
ReplyDeleteI agree.
DeleteI wanna see this and I hope they do end together!!
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