Oh, straight, you say...??
Oh, yes.
This is one of those questions that sends me in a tizzy every time. Every. Fucking. Time. But there may be some wiggle room? Especially when he talks about the difference he sees between sexual orientation and erotic orientation. *stares into the void*
Terms I learned:
trauma reenactment
cuckolding and hot wifing
father hunger
homosexual OCD
Yes, Constant Reader. I had no idea of those....
Now, talking about the ten reasons he mentions... what do YOU think?? I'm a gold star gay so I have my opinions...
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They're bi; quit playing. These men are deeply closeted and afraid to even say they're bisexual.
ReplyDeleteAnd the fact that this guy is basing his theories on the idea that he's gone "viral" for his theories.
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I kinda agree with you.
DeleteBut the thing is, these men BELIEVE they are straight (and live as straight men). The theories would need more study for me to buy them, though....
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Sexuality is extremely complex and, as he says, extremely nuanced. I agree that only the person involved is entitled to determine what their sexuality is, not those around them.
ReplyDeleteWhich is how we've gotten all these self-professed men doing straight porn. Notice that it's a very 'male' thing to do. Women usually say they're Bi. Or Lesbian While In College.
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Big says,
ReplyDeleteI agree no one else can decide one's sexuality. His reasoning for why guys do what they do is a bit...um...psychobabble? I still think Kinsey was correct - there are levels of attraction from straight to gay.
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The one reasoning I kinda buy is money.
DeletePeople do strange things for money. And yes, these dudes are not a Kinsey Six. Nope.
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HuntleyBiGuy:
ReplyDeleteI totally agree that your definition of your sexuality is a personal decision. For some, it’s a difficult one to make. I think the Kinsey scale is probably the best gauge, and even then it’s not cut and dried.
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True.
DeleteBut notice that these men say they are Kinsey 6.
No man taking a dick or fucking another man is a Kinsey 6.
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In my long history of having sex I can say had sex with many straight men, at all different levels. Some just hand jobs. Some just blowjobs. And some like the whole enchilada. And it's funny cuz I can remember three of them went with gay men because of the trauma reenactment. For the other ones I would say it's either because of kink or they're just sexual pigs and didn't care where they got off or with who. I was only too happy to oblige!
ReplyDeleteOh, I used to have straight men for breakfast.
DeleteRunning the gamut: from a furtive touch one second in a club bathroom to full-on sexual intercourse with kissing and cuddling for YEARS. I could buy the trauma reenactment theory though... now that you mention it.
And I know men who would fuck ANYTHING with a pulse.
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Sexuality is far more complex than known even by the experts.
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I know!
DeleteThat's why I don't think they should divide it between straight and gay. Too binary.
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Straight men turning to gay men when their wives are giving them enough. Hahahaha.
ReplyDeleteHeh.
DeleteI know. Some of these theories...
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