Oh, 5 Facts...
Only five, guys....
Nope, not the hamburger joint. We're talking dick here. And even though many Gay (and Bi) men practice more than just penetrative sex, many of the things in this video apply to many men who have sex with men. Many of you are going to be like *DUH! I knew this!* when watching this video and consider these issues kind of common knowledge. But you'd be surprised...
I think that one, two and even three are almost endemic at this point among Gay men. Really. Especially given the way so many men consume porn and the kind of porn they like and the fact that they think those are instructional videos. I have actually heard men discussing them and it has taken all my strength to not go and slap some sense into them. And four and five are very closely related and so common (among younger men!) they have created more than one cottage industry around them and make a ton of people a ton of money. Such is the power of ... not knowing.
I imagine that having conversations about sex is always necessary. Being sexually active (whether you fuck half of the United States and parts of Canada, or if you have only one partner or if it's just you and your hand) should be a pleasurable activity, not a thorny (or painful) guessing game. As someone commented here last time I posted about sex, ignorance is not bliss....
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P.S: FUCK YOU, BLOGGER, you piece of fascist shit. You can police the dicks we post but you cannot create a patch when your flailing, fragile blog platform has an issue? Fix your fucking comments section. I have not been able to comment on anybody's blogs. Mr. Shife said it was you (Safari was working fine), and I trust him more than I will even trust you.
Spot on. The gap between staged adult cinema and real-life biology is massive, yet so many guys expect real bodies to perform like scripted studio sets.
ReplyDeleteWhen real information is treated as taboo, predatory industries step right in to sell "cures" for completely normal anatomy. Frank, honest conversations beat guessing games every single day of the week. Great reminder!
Oh, the men in porn are literally there because they are NOT common. And porn IS fantasy.
DeleteI think that more people should talk more about sex. It would literally improve people's mental health.
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Big says,
ReplyDeleteMy blog reports that I have had ZERO comments to my 15+ years of posts. Go figure. It also reports that I'm not following any blogs at all.
As to your post...ain't I been sayin' the same thing for 15 years? LOL.
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Fuck Blogger.
DeleteIt is really shitty. Ugh.
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Interesting facts ….interesting that the plant behind him is rather limp
ReplyDeleteHahaha
DeleteI know right????? I thought I was the only one that thought 'oh, some water and a little love would come handy..."
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