Come to think of it, the laughs Michael Henry gets with this video signal more than just a funny situation. We could say that they are mostly kind of nervous chuckles because we know there's a grain of truth in all the silliness he and his friends are engaging in. There is actually something that we seldom stop to think about: WHAT is our kink? Do we HAVE a kink? Most of us would like to think of ourselves as rather vanilla: we like sex without too many adornments and are secretly just big softies with a romantic side. But do we, really?
Sex always has a touch of fancy. I thought about it when John told me in a comment that he was very vanilla. I thought so too, but come to think about it, I enjoy the occasional hair pull or the whispered dirty words here and there. Or that specific piece of clothing, or part of the body, or that toy. There's always something besides the man we are with that triggers that reaction, that rush of blood south that signals that our heart is beating faster and that anything goes. We don't need whips and chains and restraints to have a 'kink'. Think about it.
I think we always should be game for anything that our man suggests (remember, consent between adults!). How are we going to discover we really like something if we don't try it? Yes, holding hands and cuddling is hot. But so is a little manhandling or restraining and some choice words in the right moment. We don't need to go all fifty shades of silly or to become certified kinksters to enjoy some variety.
So next time you're up for some nookie, let your freak fly. After all, there's never a better opportunity than when you're in bed with someone you really want to please.
Oh, and here’s the link, in case they disabled it on other sides: LINK
Oh, and in case you were wondering...