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As always, Steven and I are on the same page. He was talking about how we are tracked by everybody and how everything we type and like and basically think about becomes the currency we pay for being on 'free' sites. No, Debra, we are not the same person (he's cuter and taller) but we apparently kind of observe the same things sometimes. And he was recently posting about how our info is always out there, every day. And was wondering how it is used.

We all know that there really is nothing free. Nothing. We always pay one way or another. Take for example 'free' services like Instagram, Snapchat, Facebook and Twitter. They're 'free', but we pay with our information. Facebook (who owns Instagram) mines our data and pushes products and in the case of this post, apparently dreams in exchange of a 'free' service. Oh, you thought those platforms were 'free'? Sorry to pop that bubble. Big Brother has been watching you for awhile. And Google (that owns THIS platform and YouTube) do exactly the same. Stealthy is the name of the game.



I decided to create a backburner IG account because I like to use the accounts of the artists when I post about them. It felt more organic and some of them have restricted accounts (very wise) that only allow those who follow them to embed their content. It's a way to make sure they don't get spammed, I guess. That's why so many here on Blogger activate comment approval. Spam. The bane of the internet. So I created an account on IG and even though I don't really use it much, I do use its search function and I 'like' the pics I find interesting. And there's where the algorithm gets me.

You see, every time you 'like' something, IA takes note. IA never sleeps, never stops watching, never leaves you alone. And based on that, IG gives me 'suggestions'. It's the serpent in the garden of good and evil. You see, all these 'products' (YouTube, Instagram, Snapchat, Facebook, etc) tempt you with what you apparently like, based on your 'likes' or the things you seem to search more. Yeah, they read your keystrokes, too. And then they offer you what that AI 'thinks' you like. Simple, huh?


Yeah, simple and scary. I don't have Facebook. I used to be on it back when it was restricted to institutions of higher education and it was fun and your grand aunt Edna was not posting pictures of her dog on it. I don't do Twitter in a 'conventional' way, I use it the way I used to use Google Reader. Remember Google Reader? It was a news aggregator. Something like Apple News but you chose the content. So I follow news outlets on Twitter to have several sources for my news. Triangulation, you know. I don't do hookup apps (even though Bae suggested I'd go back during these trying times) and I don't really 'do' Instagram, because I don't hashtag anything and I did not gave it my location or even gender. Oh, yeah, they all innocently ask you about your location, gender, age, etc. It's all part of their scheme to mine your info.

I know all this. I am aware that when I don't pay for a product, I AM the product and that's the case with all these 'free' platforms. And I've resigned myself to it. Even Google is counting my strokes as I type this. It's the XXI century and corporations own everything. Meh.




So do you think AI is right? Do you think these screenshots from Instagram are an accurate description of who I appear to be and what I seem to like? When yo look at what the Instagram AI decided to 'suggest' for me to 'like', do you see the me you think I am?

XOXO


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  1. I see plenty of handsome menz on that app.

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    1. hahaha
      Yeah, I do like handsome men and the IG caught on that.

      XOXO

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  2. Is that you? It’s one facet of you...the sexy part of you. Like you said AI learns the more you use it. If we had a visual representation of your work searches, we’d have a different snapshot of you. The same for your twitter feed.

    We should only open up our digital lives only as far as we’re comfortable. And though we may try to erase our digital footprint, there will always be remnants out there. It’s like a credit rating. Hard to improve but so easy to trash.

    XOXO 👨‍❤️‍💋‍👨

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  3. I'm here
    https://twitter.com/Xersex2009
    http://menforxersex.blogspot.com
    http://menforxersex.tumblr.com/
    https://www.instagram.com/xersex/

    but I don't like facebook.

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    1. I don't like Facebook either. It's a cesspool of stupidity.

      XOXO

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    2. I hate FB's conception at ist root: I am not interested in getting back in touch with former classmates, high school mates or that people. Facebook is the ideal place to do it. For this reason, even for this reason alone, I never even had myself the problem of whether or not to create a Facebook profile.

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    3. Same.
      Didn’t like those idiots then. Don’t like them now.

      XoXo

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  4. I use twitter because I find it interesting,though I can go days and days without posting.
    And I get legit news, from legit sites, on Facebook, and keep up with West Coast friends and family.
    And blogger, of course.
    But that'sit for me. It becomes too much intrusion in life; and it sometimes feels like too much now!

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    1. Twitter is ok for up to the moment news. But it can get overwhelming sometimes, especially with all the Russian bots and it may have as much misinformation as Facebook at a certain point.
      It does become too much at times. I agree.

      XOXO

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  5. Someone on Facebook called me a "bot" (whatever the fuck that means) because I have so few friends. I only friend people that I know. I do enjoy the 'groups' because it keeps me up on local stuff.

    How come Google never leads/suggests some good BDSM sites?

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    1. Haha
      A bot is a fake account. But it's GOOD to have few friends (or followers, on Twitter). I don't have any, for example, but I don't really interact with people there. It's strictly for news.
      And Google uses info differently, I believe. I think it collects your location, searches and sites located. You can control that by managing your google account. I have paused my history.

      XOXO

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  6. Im on insta too I should find you!!! By looking at these boards...I can tell you like men..naked men...men clothed..men you'd like to get the sex on with...all types of men...fashion....drag...but I know you have deeper and many more varied layers to you and a wide range of interests. Your very interesting and always have some things to give us to make us think. I wish you'd lived closer....we would be very good friends....Ive said the same to Steven and Walter. I already think of you as such not even having met. And im currently on stand by to see if ill be coming back to chi town for a two week stint. Could you imagine??!?!?!?

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    1. Oh, I totally think we'd click immediately. And you are right! I like many types of men. I'm slutty by nature! LOL
      But yeah, that's just a snapshot of some very specific searches I've done, mainly to illustrate a point here in the blog. So it's limited.
      And if you come to Chi again, let me know! We should meet for lunch (and convince Walter and Steven to join us!!)

      XOXO

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  7. Huntley hit the target. Those represent only one facet of you. I have IG, Twit, and what the wife calls Crackbook. All under the same pen name. I never use IG, and rarely use Twit, Crackbook is pretty much a daily thing - though I read way more than I post. I've never been under any illusions - I know all the sites gather data. Meh. Let 'em. I ignore all their "suggestions."

    I'll be out pretty much for the remainder of the month - and maybe into April depending on how this surgery goes. Though I will pop in if I am able. A sincere thanks for being here, for commenting on my blog, for your kindness. xoxo

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    1. I have to find you too on the gram!!!!!

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    2. Hahaha Crackbook.
      And I absolutely ignore any website 'suggestion'. I also block their tracking. I have ad blocking so they keep asking me to whitelist them. Fat chance.

      And good luck with the surgery! Please keep us updated. Big hugs.

      XOXO

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  8. I have trained myself to never, ever look at any internet ads whether they are geared to me based on my AI data-mined info or not. Close and delete. Take THAT, Corporate Big Brother!

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    1. Same.
      I never click on anything the web suggests. I have my own mind, thankyouverymuch. I have put extensions in my browsers that block popups and ads. Some websites don't like it. Too bad. Big Brother will have to wait.

      XOXO

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  9. I like a lot of stuff, but I never 'like' anything. I have a friend who 'liked' a certain type of brief & everyday I'd see his 'like' on Facebook. I asked him why he kept liking them so much. He told me he only liked them once. That's all it takes.

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    1. Good strategy.
      And Facebook is especially tricky on that. Anything you 'like' will follow you forever. And Facebook will make it seem like it's your favorite thing. Also, don't believe it when Facebook tells you someone wants to be your 'friend'. It's a lie.

      XOXO

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  10. I work in digital marketing and I know how awful it is. I am shocked that people still click on ads because they are intrusive and everywhere. I have also accepted the fact that they do know everything about us and I try to control it the best way I can. I have not been successful. I think my biggest accomplishment is that I have block the Kardashians from my new feed.

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    1. It IS awful. And they do know a lot about us. The toothpaste we looked up on Target, the shoes we are gonna give our boyfriend, the porn we like. Anything and everything we search or like online.
      Blocking the Kardashians IS an achievement. Bravo!! LOL

      XOXO

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  11. He's right. If you're on social media, or have a Google account or literally anything... Yes, you are being "watched" 100%. But hey, that's the price we have to pay.

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    1. Yep. It is the price we pay for 'free'.
      Nothing is free. Nothing. When we don't pay for something, WE are the currency.

      XOXO

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