Uma selva

So nothing like life to make you eat your words. I was just remembering a post on Steven’s blog about how much I didn’t like neck tattoos and then comes YouTube and makes me eat my words. Such is life. These men have the cutest apartments I have seen and I think they're totally adorable! Tattoos and all. Damn you, Steven! LoL.

The thing is, We should always be ready to reconsider our tastes.  The idea that we are bound to like only one kind of men or men who have or do not have some attributes is absolutely insane. When push comes to shove, what matters is what the man makes us feel. And I usually go with my gut feeling. Take for example these men. I think they're attractive, yes, but what makes them sexy is the way they move in their tiny kingdoms, amongst their possessions. That laissez-faire, that comfortable masculinity that lets them feel proud of having created such a beautiful backdrop for their unassuming beauty.

I think our environments (our offices, our houses, our bedrooms) speak tons about ourselves and about who we are. I think that these men's minds are in the right place. Do their apartments look like this all the time? I bet they do. Not as tidy, but the bones are there. I think I agree with Maddie when she said that she could totally pick me up in a line just by seeing how I live or the clothes I like. The way we organize the universe around us is very telling. These men seem rough and tough. The facial hair. The tattoos. But what sells me is their absolute comfort with their domestic side. I like men who like their houses.

You see, men who pay attention to their living quarters are very attractive to my eyes. I have left a man's place upon discovering the horrible state of their bedrooms and/or kitchens. I cannot take chaos and dirt. If a man has not changed his sheets or has five weeks worth of dirty dishes in his sink, I'm out. No matter how good the dick. No matter how hot he may be. I'm out. And don't get me started with men who do not read or do not like music. Gah! So finding men who evidently enjoy so much their own little cocoons makes me hot. Yeah, I guess I'm at that point in life where I think of a men in terms that go beyond what I can find between his legs. Is dick good? Hell yes. Do I need the man that I'm fucking to know his place in life and have his head set up right on top of his shoulders? You bet your sweet ass I do. 

I enjoyed the videos not only because the men are so pretty and the places so beautiful, but because they gave me a sense of stability, of warmth, of comfort. That's what I get from their places: they feel like home. Like someone who loves their place lives there. I like these men because they're obviously attractive, but I find them sexy because they've allowed their domesticity to express itself in a very aesthetic way that reflects on themselves. Their creative side allows them to build the perfect backdrop for their very attractive exterior. 

 Really. Is it that all Brazilian men are this delicious? I may have to reconsider South America. 

XOXO