Filler Queen

Ok, so if you have not tasted Maddie's scalding tea on this last episode of RPDR season 13, you need to get thee there and cackle while reading that fantastic review like I did. And then you can come back and watch a boy become a gorge WOman in front of your own eyes. I always find it fascinating how the man slowly disappears beneath layers of expertly applied makeup and a gorgeous creature emerges. Joey Jay is one of the contestants this season of RPDR and he kind of gives me the perfect excuse to talk about that magic act that suddenly changes a handsome man into a beautiful woman. And what that may mean to other men who like men.

I think Joey is a very attractive man and he, like everybody online, does not miss a chance to remind us of that fact.  And to tell you the truth, I'm here for Joey Jay's thirst traps. Because Joey is the kind of mirage that would function on let's say, Grindr. I think some men would be attracted to him while looking at his photos but would find him too 'femme' once they watch this video or when they saw him on RPDR but I think he's just fine. The thing with Drag artists and with femme boys is that many men cannot get over the gender fuckery these boys unleash.  Drag is a big fuck you to everything many men (and especially the Masc 4 Masc gay men) think about gender. I believe that the effect visuals like Joey's thirst traps have intensifies when we see a man as handsome as Joey be as unapologetically gay as he is. And then we see him as a beautiful woman. Brain blown. For some men, that's Kryptonite. 

For me, a a man of the not-a-lumberjack persuasion, the idea of not being Masc enough for some gay men is kind of intriguing. Not like I've had trouble finding men to fuck me, mind you. But it always throws me in a loop that some men would just discard somebody like Joey (or me) because he does not fit their 'parameters'. It's a 'preference' on Grindr, am I right? No fats, no femmes, no Asians (or Blacks). Tale as old as Grindr. I cannot explain how somebody would rule out the super fun and handsome Joey. Really. I'd KiKi with him. Hard. There are many, many, MANY men who are not terribly masculine and are total sexy beasts. There are countless Drag artists who are super sexy in and out of drag (have you seen Maddie?) The fact that people would attach desirability to something as flimsy as petulant outward masculinity escapes me. 

I'd really like some of you to give me an idea of what goes through the minds of salt-of-the-earth, jeans-and-polo-wearing, conventionally-masculine gay men when they decide that someone is way too femme for them. Does their dick threaten to fall off? Do they get the vapors? And don't give me 'it's a preference' or 'if I liked girls I'd date one' because I'll slap the hell out of you. You know I will...

XOXO

P.S. Joey a a boy totally gives me Maddie vibes. Bet he's wild.