Flex

This short film starts with that Soloflex commercial I was talking about a few posts back. Guess it was part of many a boy's sexual awakening, huh? And then the short goes on to explore what according to me could be a somehow accurate description of a Bi man acting up on his attraction to men. I never went through the realization that I liked both men and women, so this short (and the impessionistic tales of the many Bi men I've known) is all the info I have. 

I am going to have to confess that I’ve had affairs with many a ‘straight’ Bi guy. Oh yeah. It was almost endemic when I was younger, but I have still fallen for them later in life. And no, apparently I did not learn from my mistakes. You have no idea how many 'straight but not narrow' men have told me that I would be the one guy they'd like to try a little hanky-panky with. As if.

I would not be surprised if most if not all of the 'straight' men I've bedded are indeed Bisexual. BTW, I am one of those people who think those 'straight', gay-for-pay men in gay porn are mostly Bisexual. There. I said it. I know sexual orientation is something that we have to manifest ourselves and some of them call themselves 'straight', but still. A dick does not get hard with another man unless there's some kind of attraction, no matter how omnivorous a man's sexual appetite could be or how much money he's getting dangled before his eyes to have sex with another guy. I've gone to bed with enough of those 'confused' or 'just horny' or 'straight adjacent' men throughout my life to be pretty sure that they are probably Bi. Yes, they have a 'girlfriend' or a wife at home but honey, when they are with me, their dick wants me. It's pretty obvious. And to do that, you have to more than just Bi-curious.

Yes, I know about men in prison and in the high seas and All that Jazz. Incidental homosexuality does exist, and many of those men go back to women, but.. do they? Besides, I have never fallen for the 'straight men are hot' trope so many gay men (and countless gay porn segments) seem so enamoured with. Been there. Done them. No mystery there for me. They have nothing to offer but a quick fuck. What I do have to say is that the self-professed Bi men I've been with have mostly been excellent in bed. As in great. As in, 'yes, let's do this again'. With one glaring exception, the Bi men I've had sex with have been considerate, passionate, adventurous and very into me and into the moment. I have never lived with a Bi man, mind you. Not because I didn't want to, but because they had other things going on, but I would not have ruled it out. I'm not afraid they're gonna leave me for a woman. When somebody leaves, it's because they want to leave, it doesn't really matter who they leave with.  

One more thing: I don't think Bisexual men are Bi now and Gay later, either. Nope. It doesn't work that way. I do think that their affections/attraction can switch between men and women throughout their lives, and that when they're in the moment, they're in the moment, no matter who that moment may be shared with. I also don't think they're more promiscuous than straight or gay men (I have some pretty slutty gay and straight friends, natch), being Bi is just the way they are wired. It's an orientation, not a malady.

I don't know what your experiences with Bisexual men could have been, but I find them incredibly endearing and they have made me feel... appreciated? Is that a thing? They always seemed to be attuned to my body and also to my feelings and that is something straight men and many gay men don't seem to be able to do. Some men, even those set apart four numbers in the Kinsey scale seem terribly afraid of being emotionally available. 

Meanwhile, enjoy the short film. It's super fun. Especially when he calls his one queer friend to find out about what to do now that he's having a man over and how enlightening it is for him to have a man take care of him, for a change. Also, the doctor-to-be is hot as hell and totally fun in bed, apparently. I'd have another date with him. I may even bring him home to grandma.

XOXO