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Them: ... sorry, had to go take that phone call.
Me: What happened?
Them: Well, she's having this one issue with her husband....
Me: Oh no! Hope it's nothing serious.
Them: Sex. 
Me: It figures. Isn't it always? But I thought they were pretty adventurous.
Them: ... it seems that she was giving him a blowjob and he grabbed her head.
Me: Well, hawt?
Them: Not. She stopped immediately and told him that was it.
Me: .....?
Them: It's part of the peeves: he does that, it all ends...
Me: .....?
Them: She cannot take it.
Me:.....?
Them: What?
Me: When I'm giving head I kind of expect the guy to put his hand in the back of my head, so...
Them: ....?
Me: Yeah, so then, are we still gonna watch that new movie? Do we have snacks?


We all know that what's common for someone during sex may be somebody else's kink. But to tell you the truth, for the longest time I thought everybody gave head. Everybody. For me, it's always been kind of part of foreplay, like kissing, or caressing. The idea of a man putting his hand on the back of my head to guide the movement during oral is actually kind of hot. But I guess that's what many people may not like: lack of control. Some people like agency even when giving up control. Does that make sense?

For me, that hand in the back of the head is much more about the man taking active part of lovemaking than about him trying to overpower me (which would be somehow hot, too, TBH). But for many people it may be too much. I tried to explain that there is really no way to give a pretty blow job. A real blow job includes gagging a little, there's spit involved and there will be noises. Gagging is almost guaranteed, no matter his size, your spit will get thick and breathing may be an issue for some people. Not to mention that if he is big, your jaw is going to need you to change your technique often. Nobody said that it was gonna be easy!

That's when I think the hand on the head or on the back of the head comes at play, I guess. Maybe having a dick kind of helps me give blow jobs with another perspective? After all, when you're a guy, you've been there, and know how things work. Repaying the favor for men is normal, kind of expected. But I know some men who do not reciprocate (remember all those sticks in the mud? Them) and then the blow becomes a real job. But some people who do not have dicks may have an issue with giving a blow job because then it can became an issue of power play or autonomy. But we all give up something during sex and sex in itself is a power shifting activity. The lead goes from one person to the other and even the most submissive of participants will have an active moment sooner or later. 

I have discovered that I rather enjoy giving head. Never thought much about it until other people made me realize it was not really as common as my interactions with gay men had let me to think. In the world of straight couples, blowjobs are quite the thing, apparently. And some people taken them seriously. I also think it's quite the selfless act, when you're not in a sixty-nine, to give head. All your attention is on him, and to be real, I like looking up at a man when I'm sucking his dick. Yeah, it turns me on to turn him on. Isn't that kind of the reason that we do what we do in bed? But different people give different sex acts different weight, I guess. What I've learned is that there's some people who do not enjoy giving blowjobs. I don't know of anybody who does not like having their dick sucked, but I'm sure there is somebody out there who just doesn't like blow jobs. 

That's why when I heard Doja Cat's new song with SZA I was like 'there's a girl after my own heart'.  It's refreshing hearing a woman talking about blow jobs like that! You don't see that often. It's usually men bragging about getting head, especially in hip-hop. Good for Doja and SZA! I like giving a man a blow job. I like to look at dicks, I like to see how hard a man gets when I'm giving him all my attention and I like when he shows he's enjoying my ministrations. I have no qualms with a man putting his hand on the back of my head or face fucking me. I don't mind the taste of cum, either. All those things that for other people may be turn offs, for me are kind of hot. Even the power play. Maybe specially the power play that comes from giving someone head. So there's that.

But different strokes, right? No pun intended. For some people blow jobs are very important. There was even a presidency hanging on one of those. 

XOXO


P.S. That beautiful man in the video is Alex Landi, an actor (Grey's Anatomy). Damn, is he hot. He cold land on my planet any day.








Comments

  1. Sucking dick is the best. Tops should be able to suck dick as well as they fuck. It shows a connection and consideration for the other person. I don’t know any guy who doesn’t like getting his dick sucked. Oh and learn to eat that ass before you fuck it. Another huge turn on, which I didn’t know I enjoyed until I met a certain guy and enjoyed his ass before I fucked him.

    But then you have the “straight” guys who just want to get off. If you’ve got your dick in another guy’s mouth and/or ass, NEWS FLASH!, you’re not straight.

    XOXO 👨🏼‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏽

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    1. And Alex is hot. He’s part of a gay storyline on Grey’s.

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    2. Being a cocksucker is great.
      I think tops get sometimes too trapped in their own heads. Showing one is connected to the man one's fucking enhances sex tenfold.
      And I'm going to have to go check Gray's Anatomy.

      XOXO

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  2. In my perversion, as soon as I read the title of this post, I immediately thought about what I would always love to have on my tongue: sperm! I am 95% oral. I love making blowjobs and I love receiving them. I love feel hot cum pulsing anf filling my mouth like a hot liqueur, which after a few seconds I send straight to my stomach, after enjoying the taste of that elixir of love. I also love kisses, of course. So in my mouth I love to feel the other's tongue. And all this, in complete reciprocity.

    I'm a cocksucker, and a cum eater. And I like it that way. If I think some women don't even take their husbands cock in their hands, I think I'm just lucky to be gay.

    ALEX LANDI: What a marvellous beauty!
    He's half Corean half Italian. I could bet, with such surname!
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alex_Landi
    https://www.instagram.com/alexlandi7/

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    1. Same, Xersex, same.
      The title is the chorus of the song, which I thought was very appropriate, given that I also like blowjobs. Oh, and kissing? It's the best.
      You are right, we are lucky to be gay.

      XOXO

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  3. He a cutie. Young, so young. You and me, boo. In agreement. Except... you do need to let the blowie drive just a little, especially when they either can't see what they are dealing with or are new to dick. It takes a little time to get to know 'em. And opening up the back of one's throat takes a little time. I had a prime member in my midst the other day. He had this weird azz thing going about wanting to be under a blanket and had this list of stuff I had to do before I actually got to suck him... okay, I play. I kiss the balls. I kiss the shaft. My head is under a damn blanket. I suck the balls. I nuzzle the taint. You got to do all that for them sometimes... then I start to take the head of his dick in my mouth... and he's big, so I am taking my time. Suddenly, he pushes my head down hard! All the way to the base. And then has the nerve to get all upset about teeth! Uh-huh. F you, greedy MF. I need to warm to the vibe. I need to work my magic. You force my head down before I get there naturally? You deserve teeth, MF. So he gets all pissy and I am like. buh-byeeee. Punk azz beyotch. But that the way it go sometime. He young. He stupid. Older men! They know. They know to wait. And also... I am thinking that less is more these days. I enjoy me an average dick. You get to play with them a lot more. Not so much about getting to the 50 yard line, if you know what I mean. Thank you, boo. Love the video. Very pretty. Kizzes.

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    1. Oh, he's super cute.
      And I agree the blowie needs time. Like everything, giving good head is a process, and opening up the back of the throat to Lovelace that man does take time.
      And he had the nerve to COMPLAIN about teeth? He has never sucked dick.
      Older men in the sack? Yes, please. Nine yards are enough for me.

      XOXO

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    1. Oh, Dave.
      I just knew we'd be on the same side of blowjobs.

      XOXO

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  5. Well...what are your plans for Sunday night???? lol.

    I agree complete of course...huh hello slutawhora here. I too was very surprised when I heard to the point of falling off a chair, how many women didn't like doing it. Now imagine when I heard some gay men don't like sucking dick!!!! What?!?!?!?! But I do know some gay men who don't like sucking a dick. I never asked why. Mostly because I was out cold on the floor.

    Now be sure to let me know about sunday! Bwahahaha.

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    1. LMAOOO
      Honey, for what I've heard, you would need the whole night.
      And it surprised me too. As in some women would just not consider giving head and if they do, the man is very lucky. Mind blown. For gay men, I had no idea. It's always been part of foreplay for me, so...

      XOXO

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  6. Alex can put his hand on the back of my head any day.

    That's all.

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    1. Oh, absolutely.
      That is a very, very attractive man. If he looks at me like that, I'd be putting his hand on the back of my head myself.

      XOXO

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  7. The more you exchange the give and take, the longer the sex will last and the better it will be for both partners. Hey, thank the goddess my wife liked sucking my cock. And didn't mind me grabbing her head to take control of the sensations. We had a damn good sex life before the M.D. robbed my boners. Being Bi, I loved sucking cock. Yes, I did. And, no I never minded hands on the back of my head because I understood. You're right: I probably understood because I have a cock.
    I get not everyone is into the same sex acts...but, a gay guy who doesn't like blow jobs? Seriously?? XOXO

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    1. True.
      And I think that some people just go for the wham-bam-thank you-man. So boring. And it's great your wife does enjoy it. I was truly surprised when I heard about some women just don't liking it. Really.
      Hands on the back of the head are apparently common? Totally know where they're coming from. And you know there's a shoe for every foot. Some men are just particular...

      XOXO

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  8. I like both hands and gagging! It can be hard work being submissive. As far as looking into their eyes, it depends on the size of the equipment and weight (belly).

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    1. Ohhh
      A man after my own heart! And if they're laying down, the field is evened out. *winks*

      XOXO

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  9. Well, motherfucker. Why didn't my comment record??? Love blow jobs - giving and receiving. Don't mind hands on my head at all. Guide me, help me know what you want. GGG, baby. GGG.
    XOXO

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    1. Oh, Big. You know how blogger is...
      And you swearing gave me a tingle! LOL
      Blow jobs are awesome. GGG is the best. Really...

      XOXO

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    2. LOL. My swearing gave you a tingle? Well, motherfucker, cocksucker, suck my dick and lick my balls.
      How's that? What did that do for ya? LOL
      XOXO

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    3. Yes, please! LMAOOO
      Oh, love me a man with a potty mouth. Bet you're tons of fun.

      XOXO

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